It Happens to Boys
Creative Change Conferences
Planning for 2025

Thank you all who attended this year's Conference.

April 12th at 9:00 to 11:30 am ( Pacific time) a free Healing the Mother/Father Wound, zoom workshop by John Lee for all of those who came to the conference. Unfortunately he got stuck in Texas and couldn't get to the conference and he agreed to do his workshop on zoom. Email me an rsvp and I will email you all with the invite. send to:
catbaum@earthlink.net

John Lee, Author of bestselling book, The Flying Boy

Thank you Jerry Moe, International child and family advocate. author, speaker, teacher.

Carol Teitelbaum, LMFT
Founder of the It Happens to Boys Conference and co-founder of Creative Change Conferences. Psychotherapist, Author, and workshop leader. President Desert CAMFT.

Thank you Robert Julian Stone

Palm Springs resident’s revelation was key moment leading to $490 million settlement with university

A brave first step by a Palm Springs resident in 2020 marked a turning point that eventually led to Wednesday’s announcement that the University of Michigan will pay $490 million to settle abuse cases brought by more than 1,000 people.

Thank you Daniel Marquez
Workshop leader, speaker, and courageous healer.

"[It] was truly exceptional. I applaud Carol and her staff for sponsoring such an important conference on a very sensitive topic with such compassion and professionalism. The choice of speakers as well as the topics filled the two days with great clinical techniques for helping victims...Their appreciation for the quality and genuineness of the conference was obvious to everyone."

Robert J. Ackerman

"The urgency of our work is felt more now than any other time in America," says Carol Teitelbaum, LMFT and co-founder of the It Happens to Boys Conference. "With the lightning-fast movement and sharing of information combined with a rampant abuse of power, there's simply no place for perpetrators to hide anymore."

Carol Teitelbaum, LMFT

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Due to the inherent secrecy and sensitive nature of childhood sexual trauma, many victims won't share their stories and those who could help often don't ask the right questions. The effectiveness of the " It Happens to Boys" Conference comes from the mental health and recovery professionals creating an environment that is safe enough to encourage sharing and learning together. It is designed to be a compassionate, quality experience, both for those attending as survivors and those who support them in our community. It is also about a simple awareness and letting people know help and support like this exists. Untreated boys and men commonly have issues with rage, domestic violence, child abuse, drug and alcohol dependencies, arrests, and suicide attempts. As an organization, we understand that these situations and their solutions are complex and varied.

Consequences of childhood sexual abuse exhibited in adulthood

Some people who were sexually abused during childhood have few sequelae once they reach adulthood. However, many studies have shown that childhood sexual abuse can have a wide range of consequences that carry into adulthood and across multiple spheres of functioning.
Not only can childhood sexual abuse have lasting effects throughout adulthood, but the effects can take new forms in the majority, affecting marital and parental life as well.

POSSIBLE ADVERSE EFFECTS OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE EXHIBITED IN ADULTHOOD

SEXUAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH

Somatic problems
Risky lifestyles (e.g. smoking, alcohol, and drug use)
Poorer physical health
Poorer perception of physical health
More frequent visits to the physician
Occupational disability
Chronic diseases
Chronic pain
High-risk sexual behavior (unprotected sex, multiple partners, etc.)
Gynecological and perinatal complications
Sexual problems (e.g. painful intercourse, vaginismus in women)
Greater risk of contracting HIV and STBBIs

PSYCHOLOGICAL

Mental health problems (depression, personality disorders, psychotic disorders, panic disorder, etc.)
Psychological distress
Dissociation
Symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder
Anxiety
Self-mutilation
Suicidal thoughts attempted or completed suicide
Drug and alcohol abuse

RELATIONAL AND MARITAL

Less trust in others
Commitment issues
More excellent family and personal conflict
Isolation
Fear of intimacy
Marital dissatisfaction
Less stable relationships with partners
Marital conflict
Spousal violence

PARENTAL

Permissive parenting practices
Parenting stress
Parentification of children
Troubled parent-child relationships

PERINATAL PERIOD

Early motherhood
Renewed symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (during pregnancy, delivery, nursing)
Premature births
Post-partum depression

2025 Lineup of speakers coming up
Dan Griffin

Griffin’s book, A Man's Way through Relationships, is the first trauma-informed book written to help men create healthy relationships while navigating the challenges of internalizing the "Man Rules." Griffin is also the author, A Man’s Way through the Twelve Steps, the first trauma-informed book to take a holistic look at men’s sobriety. He also co-authored Helping Men Recover, the first comprehensive gender-responsive and trauma-informed curriculum for men. Griffin is also the co-author of the two curricula Amazing Dads (with Harrison Crawford) published by Wiley in 2024 and Healing Men's Pain (with Jonathan DeCarlo) published by Wiley in 2024. Griffin is working on books to go along with both curricula as well. He is also author of the book What Men Would Tell You if We Weren't Too Busy Watching TV (with Dr. Allen Berger). In December 2024, Griffin had the privilege to work with Dr. Sophia Murphy to adapt two of his curricula to be for women to create Amazing Moms and Healing Women's Pain.

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For fifteen years now, Creative Change Conferences has brought together some of the brightest names in mental health and recovery to explore the links between child abuse and addiction, depression, low self-esteem, relationship and intimacy challenges, sexual dysfunction and compulsion, pornography use and more.

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